I dare not only dream but to write it out loud to silence my dream killer!!

[Anja]

Hi all,

well there is one dream I have been dreaming for years now, but am incredible stuck in a "I don't deserve this and should stop dreaming such nonsense and even if I would (which I don't), I wouldn't know how" line of thinking.
Which is absolutely annoying!!! And dream killer in action!!!!!
Time to change into a possibility person and to trick my line of thinking: Daring to post this is even worse than just dreaming and thinking!! ;-)
So,

What's something that you would love to create in your life?
I would love to have a loving relationship, marry and found a family!!!:-)

"What would have to happen in order to have a loving relationship?"
First step would be to get clear about what I consider to be a loving relationship.

"What would I have to do in order for to find out what I consider a loving relationship?"
Write a list of what experiences, emotions I want to share with my partner

"Am I willing to do that?"
Yes, absolutely!!!

And for now I'll just log out and grab a pen and some paper!!!!!

It's official now!! This is my dream and I want to create it in my life!!
If you have other ideas as to what would have to happen to create this dream. Please feel free to share :-) In any case thank you for your time to read this post! :-)
Have a nice day, all of you!!

Love
Anja

[Tomwalked]

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Lovely, Anja... absolutely lovely!!!



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[Terri Carey]

Good for you!! 
I wonder if Michael's list of 100 actions that would get you one step closer to your dream would be helpful here?  It really opened up my mind to how much I COULD do to improve things for myself during the Creating the Impossible Challenge.
Terri

[Michael Neill]

Fantastic, Anja -

And remember, all we're doing here is practicing possibilities!

No need to actually get all practical and successful (unless you actually want to...  )

love,
michael

[Anja]

Hi all,

am still practicing on this one!! And to my own amazement I am really enjoying that!! :-)
But I wouldn't mind to be successful though 

Love and a happy day to you
Anja

PS: these weeks I am really enjoying a lot of new experiences in a course hosted by the police which is challenging but great and to which I subscribed during July as one of my 100 actions :-)

[Elese]

Just chiming in with love and good wishes Anja -  yunno, if someone you really cared about asked you whether you thought they 'deserved' love, their dreams and all good things - what would you tell them?

[MaryRC]

Good wishes to you, Anja!  It is my hope that you will find the best person for you and have a happy family.