I have a question for the forum that I was hoping Michael would have addressed in one of his shows but I have not been able to find insight yet.
I met a guy a few months ago with whom I have an amazing connection, fun, many shared interests, values, etc. He has all the qualities that I have been hoping to find in a partner, except...he's not sure he wants monogamy in a long-term relationship. To him, monogamy comes from an ego-based place "ME wanting to be special, ME wanting to be the only one" whereas with true unconditional love and coming from a place of trust in the Universe's design, we should be able to be ok with our partner having relations with other people, including sexual relations, if that is what makes them happy. If the primary relationship is meant to be, than outside connections with others should not affect it. He wants his partner to have that freedom as much as he does.
I think that's all beautiful in theory, but when I think about living it, it makes my stomach turn, and I know it's just not where I'm at (or is it only insecurity/fear that makes me feel icky inside?). I only want to be intimate with one person and yes, I want to be special to my partner.
I love this man and would love to be with him over the long term, but I just don't know if this is something that can be bridged. I'm also not sure how to apply Michael's 200% relationship idea to this.
Any ideas, insights, wisdom on this would be greatly appreciated!!
All the best,